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‘Chores’ and pocket money…

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. There is no right or wrong age to start getting children to help out with chores, it is more about what tasks are age appropriate for you to ask them to do. Firstly, I would try to avoid the word ‘chores’ as this can be seen, and felt, as being quite negative and not something your children are likely to approach with a positive attitude. In addition, chores could be seen as things that have to be done in order to get a reward, but many ‘chores’ or tasks are expected and required actions of our children as they develop into responsible adults.

OtherRebekah Frankcom26 August 2020parenting, families, parenting tips, listen, life skills, budgeting, chores, tasks, washing up, making the bed, laundry, pocket money, independence

Will experiencing lockdown change our children forever?

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. In these strange and surreal times, we have been and still are facing things that we have never faced before in our lifetimes. Many families have experienced an extremely difficult time in relation to living and working space, finances and family circumstances etc and this is likely to continue as we start to go into some kind of ‘recovery phase’.

We just wanted to take a moment to look at all of the things we are hearing from families about their experiences through the Coronavirus outbreak and what these changes might mean for us and, more importantly, our children, as we come out of it and into our ‘new normal’ - will this experience change our children forever?

Supporting Dads*

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. Very often when babies arrive there is a great deal of focus on Mum and the baby and Dads can often be left on the sidelines. The arrival of a baby can be life changing for any parent and so we need to make sure that we are looking out for Dads at this monumental time. The adjustment for Dads can be significant, and there can be hormonal changes (testosterone, oestrogen, cortisol, and prolactin) in men after their baby arrives which can cause them to have baby blues or postnatal depression. I have worked with many families where I have had to actively encourage Dad to take a more active role and to show how important a role he has to play in his baby’s life. We don’t want Dads to be on the sidelines, we want them to feel valued and empowered in their new role.

Health, OtherRebekah Frankcom24 June 2020parenting, families, parenting tips, top tips, one to one time, listen, communication, dad, How are you dad, supporting dads

Getting to know... Mark Williams from 'Fathers Reaching Out'

Mark Williams from Fathers Reaching Out. In 2004 Mark experienced depression and suffered for years until he had a breakdown. He founded International Fathers’ Mental Health Day and #Howareyoudad campaign which makes sure that the whole family is getting support. Claire connected with Mark on Twitter when researching Dads and Post Natal Depression (PND) and we thought that it would be really interesting to get to know him a bit better.

Health, Other, Getting to knowRebekah Frankcom22 June 2020HowAreYouDad, Postnatal depression, fathers, dads, mental health, male suicide, antenatal, postnatal, families, babies, baby

Family Crisis Support at Twins Trust

Twins Trust Family Crisis Support (formerly Helping Hands) is there to equip families of twins, triplets and more with the skills they need to get back on their feet at a really difficult time in their life.

The parents and carers who come to us are already doing at least two or three times the care of parents of singletons, and are usually experiencing social isolation, finding it harder to leave the house for appointments and social groups. To then add a bereavement, serious physical or mental illness, or other extreme circumstances on top can easily tip a family into crisis. Family Crisis Support exists to try and build these parents’ coping skills to a place where they can be confident and capable parents.

Other, TwinsRebekah Frankcom21 May 2020parenting, families, covid19, corona virus, quarantine, lockdown, family crisis support, twins trust, twins, triplets, quads, multiple births, family support

The worries are real - how to help anxiety in our children

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. In March this year I was delivering a seminar as part of the Twins Trust annual Volunteer Day. It was on the topic of anxiety in children but little did I know that when I delivered this talk that we would be heading into a pandemic and that anxiety in not only our children, but also in adults would increase dramatically over the following weeks.

Anxiety is a word that very few people want to associate with children as we want our children to be carefree, happy and certainly don’t want them to worry or have anxiety over anything. We need to be aware that anxiety can span over a significant range from mild worry which can be absolutely natural such as doing an exam or going to a new place for the first time, through to something that can be extremely worrying and can have impact on both physical and mental wellbeing.

Coughs and colds? Some hints and tips for looking after your little one when they are feeling under the weather

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. t’s that time of the year when everyone seems to have a cough or a cold! The typical time for the common cold to make an appearance is between October and April and during this time of the year it can feel like your child has constantly got a cold. Most children before they start school will average 6-8 colds per year, which works out at around 1 cold per month! The good news is that once your child starts school their immunity starts to get better which means that their tendency to catch colds will reduce.

Other, HealthRebekah Frankcom11 November 2019parenting, children, families, nanny, childcare, Coughs, colds, tlc, hints and tips, Handwashing, clean, sleep, tissues, humidifier, go outside

My 8 top tips for travelling with children

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. I had one of my first experiences of travelling with children right at the very start of my career. It was with 8-month-old twins, a 2-year-old and a 5-year-old. I vividly remember the sheer volume of ‘stuff’ that we had to pack - anyone would have thought we were going to live in a desert for months, with no access to shops or even running water!

Other, Babies, TravelRebekah Frankcom15 July 2019parenting, children, families, nanny, childcare, travel, planning, parenting tips, travelling with children

How to be the perfect parent… 7 ways to achieve perfection!

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. Embrace and understand that parent guilt is real! Nothing that anyone says or does can make it any better.

OtherRebekah Frankcom4 February 2019parenting, children, families, nanny, childcare, instincts, goodenoughparenting

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