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Are you using grandparents for childcare?

Written by Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. Childcare is usually at the top of any parent’s mind whether they just need someone to have the children for them to go to an appointment or if it is more permanent for them to go back to work. This is often where grandparents come in. They might offer to help or you might find yourself in the position where you ask them - either way there are a few things to consider when thinking about using grandparents (or indeed friends / other relatives) for childcare.

GrandparentsRebekah Frankcom8 January 2024parenting, families, parenting tips, top tips, listen, communication, tolerance, communications, problem solving, grandparent childcare, grandparents, grandparent tips, grandparent relationships, open communication, family childcare, childcare, grandparents childcare

My parents help me with the childcare for my two children. I am very grateful for their help, but I find that they don’t do things as I would like and I don't know how to approach it with them.

Reply from Claire Burgess, Family Consultant. This is a very common situation for many people who have family members providing childcare for them. When we have to raise any issues with those who care for our children it can be tricky, but when it is a family member this adds an additional layer of difficulty. It is understandable that you do not want to upset your parents ultimately you want to maintain a close and special relationship. However, if you don’t raise the issues that you have, this will lead to you becoming more frustrated and only end up causing a more awkward and difficult situation between you all. It is really important that you avoid getting to this stage!

GrandparentsRebekah Frankcom6 August 2020parenting, families, parenting tips, top tips, listen, communication, tolerance, communications, problem solving, grandparent childcare, grandparents, grandparent tips, grandparent relationships, open communication, family childcare

Grandpa's role

Written by Roger Ashelford. After the initial excitement of the news that we were going to be grandparents I started to think of all the lovely things we would be able to do with our grandchildren as they grew up! The very early years were wonderful for the cuddles and watching the development of these small people, the smiles and the start of language but I knew I was going to become more ‘useful’ as they all got older.

GrandparentsRebekah Frankcom5 August 2020families, grandparent tips, granny, grandparent, pride, excitement, grandchildren, being a grandparent, support, Grandpa

Being a Granny

Written by Thirza Ashelford. I will never forget the moment I was told I was going to be a grandparent. Our son and his partner had arrived one Friday evening, ostensibly to stay for the weekend and visit friends in the town. We chatted in the kitchen while I made dinner when our son announced that they had something to show us. The “something” was a twelve week scan photograph of our first grandchild. That moment of transition from being a parent to becoming a grandparent was thrilling, exciting and at the same time somewhat overwhelming.

GrandparentsRebekah Frankcom4 August 2020families, grandparent tips, granny, grandparent, pride, excitement, grandchildren, being a grandparent, support

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